Stewart: Tell me a little about your interest in theologian and author Matthew Fox.
Tessa: I have read everything he's written for years back, and I organized his speaking tour through Great Britain a few months ago. I suppose I find him very interesting because he speaks a lot about what I'm particularly interested in at the moment: the union of masculine and feminine. And he, to me, is an example of strong, clear masculine and then lovely feminine with poetry, dancing, music, chanting, the whole lot. So, I could work very easily with him. The combination of his masculine and feminine certainly isn't, "I've got all the answers and you need to listen to me"; he loves to work back and forth with people. Two talks he gave on Good Friday were on The Crucifixion and Resurrection of the Planet, and The Crucifixion and Resurrection of the Cosmic Christ. And I'm in a particular phase where I'm actually about to start my own blog, and I'm really looking at the dissolution of the old masculine thing, and the emergence of something else. I'm very fascinated by the Arab Spring in all those countries in the Middle East where people are rising up and saying, "We can't go on like this". To me, it's a huge symbol of people being fed up with one person controlling everything. So, Matthew is very interesting to me. But he's big on how we have crucified the planet, and how we have the ability to resurrect it. Have you seen the documentary "Thrive"?
Stewart: No, not yet.
Tessa: Well, do check it out. It's at the grassroots level, Mr. and Mrs. Smith are suddenly waking up and "we've got to do something in a different way on this planet". It's an interesting video; it's all part of what's going on at the moment. ("Thrive" features Deepak Chopra, David Icke, Barbara Marx Hubbard and others.)

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Stewart: You were mentioning the Sacred Masculine and Divine Feminine.
Tessa: It's Matthew's view, which isn't popular at certain levels, that we're in the time of the return of the feminine and the feminine principle. He feels that it is the feminine that's going to bring the "new". In one talk, he spoke about how the feminine will be the driving force and the feminine needs a consort. Now that's not exactly everyone's cup of tea, because in one sense he's honoring the feminine, but for a lot of people, for a man to be a consort, they might think, Now wait a minute, what's all that about? And it's quite interesting when you think about it that we have Queen Elizabeth II with a Diamond Jubilee, and she has a consort, and Queen Victoria had a consort, and here we are in England with all of this ahead of us, believe me. Matthew's also written a book called "The Hidden Spirituality of Men"--I don't know whether that means the feminine in men--and he's looking for men to be very, very different. As you probably know, many men have been controlling--and God knows, there is still a lot of that around--and I perceive that it really isn't accurate anymore. A lot of men are lost, still very lost. But at least they're a bit more understanding of women. I was quite interested when he had a go at saying, "It's women who're going to change the world, and they need a consort", and there was a bit of a reaction in the room.
I think the Sacred Masculine is the Sacred Masculine in me, so Sacred Masculine in Tessa and Divine Feminine. There's also a piece in the Book of Revelation which interests me greatly: "The spirit and the bride say, Come!" So, spirit being masculine and bride being feminine; spirit as the masculine and humanity as the feminine. And of course the body of humanity, ideally, is feminine in worship--not to a man or to men in general, but to the divine; surrender. So, "The spirit and the bride say, Come!" Matthew is very big on the Divine Feminine yielding and bringing forth, and men being the consort of the queen. The fact is, the revelation of what Matthew is about now is the union of masculine and feminine. So, I haven't read that book, but he's big on the hidden spirituality of men, and on Divine Feminine and Sacred Masculine, ideally in each one of us and I suppose in the world: masculine and feminine in different bodies. I'm very much into Sacred Masculine and Divine Feminine in ME, in one person. I mean, you could say, I suppose, divine androgyny, but those are my words, not Matthew's.

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Stewart: My view is that the world was patriarchal, and that many societies are now much more egalitarian, though elements of patriarchy remain here and there. In a relationship with a woman, I favor equal sharing, though there are times and instances where one person naturally takes a dominant role, and where this is even desired. It also depends on the nature of one's being and the quality of one's character. While patriarchy has had destructive effects, I've thought that one positive effect--if you can call it that--of male dominance over the centuries is that men's ability to protect has helped humankind survive to this point, protecting people from enemies in wars and maintaining a balance in the outer world. But then wars have generated suffering across the spectrum, including suffering in men, in their hearts and psyches. And elements of patriarchy have prevented full receptivity to life, its truth, and to the power of love. I, too, find that part of the nature of this world is to be receptive to Source, and lacking that receptivity, we don't know what we're doing, in my view; there's no idea of why we're here, what the collective...
Tessa: Absolutely.
Stewart: So it does take that, in men and in women, and this is where maturity comes in. Releasing old, distorted, self-centered patterns and freeing up that energy for new use, the mature masculine in me emerges in concert (or as consort) with the mature feminine elements in me, in the right balance for me. Then I can do what I'm here to do in concert with you and others.
Tessa: I think, truly, if men yielded to Source and women yielded to Source, you have a basis for going forward and doing things together. In so much of the world, the feminine subjugated itself to the former masculine, which is a bit of a mess. But I know I'm beginning to work with men who know what we're talking about, and it's a very different thing now. There's a very fascinating man named Will Keepin who lives up on the coast near Seattle, and he's a fascinating man because he's doing genuine reconciliation work in relationships between men and women. I want to work more closely with him.
Stewart: That sounds really good. I find the union of the Sacred Masculine and Divine Feminine in one person or collectively allows for a care of the whole--including the planet and the whole energetic system of earth and humankind--as well as action in a specific sense, which is both masculine and feminine in nature...the oneness of that. And so, the whole scope is covered, once there's maturity and union is allowed.
Tessa: Yes, union is allowed, you see...I'm fascinated by union is allowed. It isn't that one (masculine or feminine) is better than the other--it is a dance between both.

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Stewart: Speaking of union, I can see a lack of union between people in the world, and I know that union may be lacking in some of my own relationships, and I have to look at my responsibility in that. But if there is union lacking--and I think there's a great potential for the union that we were talking about in a mature way--then to that extent, people are actually depriving themselves of a great deal of pleasure. Part of this wonderful earthly experience is to enjoy the pleasure of it, and if that union is lacking, then we're not having it as good as we could.
Tessa: Absolutely--there has to be union. I mean, in one sense, there's sex at every level, and we need to recognize that. I mean, just because one's not 34, when it tends to be more physical. I have tremendous sexual interactions with people--in the right context. I mean, everything is sex--I remember someone gave a talk one time about "The Sex Life of Rocks". Even wielding a vacuum cleaner is a sexual experience! In other words, there's energy moving between things and people all the time.
Stewart: And that energy is supposed to move, but if there are beliefs that sex is wrong or something, that blocks the energy, and so that creative union can't happen as fully as it could. Of course, it happens between of a resonance between two people, and it won't happen the same with any two people. One thing I've had to learn is that there are some people who we may not be able to get along with. Growing up and being interested in spiritual things, oneness was held to be so important, and oneness is a fact, but that doesn't mean that everybody is going to be able to fit together or get along in the same way or at the same "level". So, it's been important for me to learn that it's okay not to be close to a certain person, since not all types of vibration and energy resonate well together. There's the perfect place for everyone and everything, the perfect closeness or distance--it's honoring the design of things. Now, on to some different questions. How would you describe your own purpose or purposes in life, and what gifts do you feel you offer others?
Tessa: I'm truly having an increased experience of heaven. I know I'm here to bring life and bring it more abundantly. The Bible speaks about the children of Israel crossing from one side of the river Jordan to the other to go into the Promised Land, and how the priesthood stood in the middle and assisted them to go from one state to another. I think that's part of my job: to assist people to go from one state to the other. Of course, if I want to beat myself up, I'll ask myself, "Well, how well have I done that?" But I keep reviewing it and I keep reviewing it. Sometimes I think, "God, is there anything happening here?" And it doesn't matter. One just has to be real, be authentic. But I'd like to think I was capable of assisting in the energy--which goes back to critical mass--of assisting people on the planet to go from one state to another.
Stewart: That's gorgeous. I know you've certainly done that, and it's wonderful to see you continuing in that. What do you think of the world's potential and the potential of people in it?
Tessa: I believe--and there's a belief!--that the world as we've known it is going to pass away, and something else will show itself. If you think of a compost heap, it all looks terrible and it's breaking down. But in the middle of it all is brand new fresh material that can be used in the garden--which takes us back to "Being There"! I do feel that we're well into disintegration. There need to be enough of us who will inhabit critical mass and start living and behaving differently, and I think it's happening. I don't know whether it'll be in my lifetime that it will pass away. I guess, just revealing and behaving in a radiant way, one never knows how far that influence goes. I always talk about--people laugh, but I talk about infecting the world with right spirit. Infecting...most people think of the word "infect" in a derogatory way. But I feel I do infect my world with right spirit.
Stewart: That's great. One's expression certainly does have an effect. I'm very interested in living fully and accurately, because I know that that will have some kind of effect, even though I may not be able to see it, and the effects may not show up instantaneously. But I find it wise to live in that way now, because that sets the stage for what happens tomorrow, and so my idea is that it may make it easier for me or any person to continue in that way. If their experience is of the same vibration, it may kind of clear the way or shed a little more light on the path. So, I figure whatever I can do now, today, that will help what's going to happen tomorrow, for me or whoever. If you could say one thing to people in the world, what would it be?
Tessa: (Laughs) Yeah, yeah. For one thing, wake up! Wake up to the fact that there's another world that we could all inhabit together. You know, in a way, just because you can't see it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Wake up. Stewart, do you have a spiritual practice right now? Is there something that you do that intensifies your experience?
Stewart: Well, what I would say is that it's living, allowing that flow-through. Being open to life, to spirit, to intuition in myself, and letting that find form in all that I do as fully and clearly as I can. Meditation is also big for me every so often, just sitting quietly, letting there be a ritual space in which things become still, there's a reordering of energies, perspective clears, and vision increases. And as a result, what I do afterward is more creative. Once in a while, I'll join others on a conference call to listen to a spiritual consideration. My current experience is to live with as few beliefs as possible, which is also kind of a fun exercise, but for me it's all about living it and being.
Tessa: Well, that's what we're asked to do: be. Being the radiant energy that I am, and that we all are. To me, being is all about spiritual expression. I do smile about the phrase spiritual education. You can't educate spirit, but you can educate your body, mind and heart to express spirit well. I can remember people talking about us all living in a spiritual community, and somebody said, "What else is there, and why is it a spiritual community?" It's community expressing spirit, maybe. But a spiritual community? What's that? How is it different from our local village community?
Stewart: That's great!
Tessa: I suppose, back in those days, it had to be said it's a spiritual community, as opposed to any other kind of community. Thank you, Stewart...this has been a beautiful interview and a lovely exchange of energy.
Stewart: And thank you, Tessa...I've really enjoyed our experience and talking with you about these things! And now, let's close with your favorite poem by Rabindranath Tagore, "I Dreamt".
I dreamt....
and in my dreams, life was joy!
I awoke....
and to my sorrow,
life was service.
I opened my heart.....
and behold, my joy became my service!
Tessa: And if we all want to see what we as human beings are really here for, do watch a talk on DVD by Martin Cecil entitled "The Immense Responsibility of Man"...given in 1987!
Love to all, Tessa
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